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Maru ([personal profile] yakalskovich) wrote2011-10-06 03:28 pm
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Something to remind myself of...

“Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on.”

Steve Jobs Stanford Commencement address delivered on June 12, 2005.

[identity profile] idylchild.livejournal.com 2011-10-06 02:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Reading this, I feel great respect for the man. These are words to live by.

[identity profile] idylchild.livejournal.com 2011-10-06 03:12 pm (UTC)(link)
*dying*

Yeah, it's great to be idealist and defy the real world ("NO! I will not capitulate! I will live on the streets eating from trash bins and find fulfillment in my freedom!") but in practice it doesn't always pan out.

I don't know what I want to be when I grow up. LOL

I LOVE teaching -- but only those who share my passion. The riders I have who really want to excel, go all the way -- the time I spend with them is pure joy. (I actually wanted to be a gymnast but got too tall, switched to ballet and got burnt out and meandered back to horses. But if I could do it all over again, I think I'd be a gymnastics coach -- it's really my favorite sport.)

I love competition and being part of a team.

But alas the majority of my students -- my bread and butter (the die-hards are all on scholarship *headdesk*) -- don't want to work. And it's like pulling teeth to get them to participate.

[identity profile] idylchild.livejournal.com 2011-10-06 03:14 pm (UTC)(link)
My very favorite prof of all time (who is a playwright as well as an economist) turned down a position at Stanford in econometrics because he wanted to teach 3rd grade.

If I hadn't had the responsibility of providing for two little ones, I would totally have followed in his footsteps.

[identity profile] idylchild.livejournal.com 2011-10-06 04:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I have patience for students who apply themselves. Everyone learns differently and one cannot expect one individual to learn at another one's rate.

I would much MUCH rather teach a person with 95% work ethic and 5% talent than the other way around. I have no problem with someone not grasping a concept -- not being able to do something -- but I loathe laziness. I can have the most brilliant kid in the world in my class and if they are lazy, I want nothing to do with them.

Which isn't to say that I don't do my share of shirking and have fun doing it. LOL In fact, after a hard competition, we usually slack off for a day or so before hitting the course again. But being around people who are fundamentally lazy maddens me -- I almost feel as if they are sucking all of my energy out of me.
Edited 2011-10-06 16:02 (UTC)

[identity profile] idylchild.livejournal.com 2011-10-06 04:45 pm (UTC)(link)
It's good that we are friends and not in a student/teacher relationship then. :D

Actually most of my friends are both brilliant and completely unambitious and I prefer it that way. Their even-keel approach to life complements my instatiable drive.

My friend tells me I am "fire". LOL
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[personal profile] ceitfianna 2011-10-06 05:21 pm (UTC)(link)
This is a great and inspiring quote. There are great things out there for both of us.

[identity profile] idylchild.livejournal.com 2011-10-06 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
OMG LJ is working *klunk*

I think it is frustrating because as educators we see kids with nothing to work with giving it all they have (and then some) and the person who could go all the way just doesn't care.

That sort of attitude in that environment in infuriating.

But with my friends -- for whom I have no responsibility and no ambition -- it doesn't matter what they do with their time and talent. :)

[identity profile] idylchild.livejournal.com 2011-10-06 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I know that in areas where I have had to work really, really hard to do well, it is aggravating to me to see someone with so much talent just jack off. That said, one of my closest friends in Helsinki is a brilliant girl (fluent in 7 languages) who chooses to be a lowly secretary in London. She simply wants to go out to clubs and have fun. Between you and me, she could be running the institute, but she has no desire.

I still adore her. :)

[identity profile] idylchild.livejournal.com 2011-10-06 08:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah but she could at least have been a professor!

To be a grunt laborer? ugh

[identity profile] idylchild.livejournal.com 2011-10-06 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Agreed but can you imagine being the person who makes the photocopies for the academics???

[identity profile] idylchild.livejournal.com 2011-10-06 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes and that is why I train horses and children and left Academia.

But my point about being baffled by my friend's choices stands. It can't be fun for her placating those egos.

[identity profile] idylchild.livejournal.com 2011-10-06 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
It's weird. I have never had to have my ego placated. When I don't understand something, I just want someone who does! In translation, this means I find myself very frustrated with people who need to have their egos stroked. I feel like they need to take a pill or some such so that we can dispense with the bullshit and get down to work.

Which is why I love animals and small children. :D

[identity profile] idylchild.livejournal.com 2011-10-06 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
okay, so adorable!

Little putty tat got on the table with big feral tom cat and curled up beside him to sleep!

I haven't the faintest idea how he managed to get up on the table. He's way too little.

[identity profile] idylchild.livejournal.com 2011-10-07 06:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I discovered my aged cat (he's 17) likes cream! I poured some into a bowl this morning whilst preparing my own coffee and he drank it all.

Five years ago, he wouldn't touch the stuff.