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Maru ([personal profile] yakalskovich) wrote2010-08-06 12:51 am

I am blogging stuff like crazy today...

... but as the Little Lady has gone home, I'm catching up with my usual life.

I liked this article about how repressed we are, today, compared to the sixties. Especially about the duty to be healthy at other people's standards.

I guess that's why fat people, and especially those of us into fat acceptance as a cultural and political movement, get so much hate thrown at them: - we walk around brazenly denying our society's cardinal virtue, 'health' (as defined by other people's rigid standards). You can smoke or drink or bonk in secret; you can't be secretly fat. And if you're not walking the walk and talking the talk of 'OMG I must lose weight I am gross and so unhealthy!!1!1eleventy-one!!', we are really dangerous rebels.

People can see us having fun and might fall off the wagon peer pressure has put them on, no matter what it is about for them personally. Others, who have perfected their self-repression in the name of health, just hate us for very visibly scorning, ignoring or plain old despising something they use up all their spoons for.

[identity profile] essayel.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 07:36 am (UTC)(link)
I was telling Paul last night that he's got 60% more woman now than when we got married.

Am I going to have to join tumblr too to keep up with you?

[identity profile] essayel.livejournal.com 2010-08-06 01:19 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not as bad here as in the states. I see scads of natural looking women in the streets every day and just the occasional one who's still that same shape she was when she was 20. Most of those are the incredibly athletic type [like my friend Anna who does 3 day eventing on a horse the size of an elephant and regularly puts in a 12 hour day in the garden] - it's only the occasional one who looks like a beautifully groomed corpse..