it's bloody exclusivity, that's what it is. most my friends have it and they don't even enable me to link my other friends to their discussions. they are not afraid of anything, it's just snobbery or rather - they know all the people they want to know. i find it weirdest when they have twice as many friends as they friended, since that means their journal cannot be actually read by all those nonfriended people.

i can't even rant properly. they are doing it more and more. grrr.
and as i will have to ask in the other comment as well, what are muns. moderatingmums?