hm. not sure if i get the technics of this, but i guess it's because you own the com in equal parts that all of you, but none of your readers can see the private .. parts *snort*


sorry, expressed myself badly. bnfs hardly ever lock their journals. my friends dont do it from that kind of snobbery, it's a bad word. but the other stuff holds true. and considering that they like to be friended, but don't give anything in return ... weird. my brain is too stuffy and scared to think right. i keep asking them to undo it and tease them about it anyway.